Money, Investing & Happiness

Allan RothThe views presented here do not necessarily represent those of Advisor Perspectives.

My clients often seek my opinion on matters beyond financial planning that sometimes involve life choices. I respond that I’m strictly a financial advisor and have absolutely no qualifications to tell them how to live their lives. I assure them that I’m still a work in progress in my own life. Despite having little expertise when it comes to the subject of happiness, I’m fascinated by the subject of money and happiness.

What insights I do have mainly come from three sources: my own mistakes; research from Harvard psychology professor and author of the book “Stumbling on Happiness,” Daniel Gilbert; and lessons from the late Jonathan Clements. Jonathan wrote over 1,000 columns for The Wall Street Journal and many more for his HumbleDollar.com website.

Below, I discuss my own failed experience, review research on money and happiness, and offer my hypothesis on investing and happiness.

The Theory of Saving & Investing (a Sad Tale)

Why do we save and invest? The answer is obvious. We defer immediate gratification (spending) so that later in life, we can enjoy the financial freedom to do what we want. We invest the money we save in the hope that it will grow faster than inflation and taxes, so we can reach financial freedom sooner. That financial freedom will allow us to do what we want with our lives, which will make us happy — at least that’s how the theory goes.

I lived by that theory for the first two decades of my career in corporate finance and management consulting. Although I enjoyed much of that part of my career, I didn’t love it. I couldn’t wait to be financially independent, so I lived quite frugally and saved a bundle.

That frugality included investing, and I have been an indexer since the late 1980s. That frugality in spending also meant I never got on the hedonic treadmill and was proud to live beneath my means to secure the future. I was part of the FIRE (financial independence retire early) movement before there was such a thing. I thought I was doing everything right.

It finally happened about 22 years ago. My family and I became financially independent. I could do almost anything with the rest of my life. Yet, to my utter surprise, I wasn’t happy.

I had no idea what I wanted to do with the rest of my life. The realization dawned that the central space my work had occupied in my life could not easily be replaced with hobbies or make-busy projects. My sense of self-worth was depleted, along with my social network, which included friends I would regularly see at work.

Where did I go so horribly wrong? Though I had financially prepared for retirement, I had not really prepared to be retired. I just assumed financial independence meant I would be happy, but as noted in the book “How to Retire” by Christine Benz, I had completely failed in visualizing what would make me happy in retirement.

Ultimately, my retirement lasted about a month. It was an epic failure.